I am settled.

Settled is a very settled word. You feel relaxed when you here that someone is getting settled. In our society settled means “getting married”. But what does settle actually mean? Have good job person owning a house basically in one word being Independent according to me. But we take the opposite meaning of this word – you know how they say track suits are made to exercise but we use them for exactly opposite reason to relax. Same thing goes with this word “Settled”! Recently I came to know about a girl who got married at a very young age and she settled early in her life and people were discussing how fate and god was so good to her. But according to me she is not settled she just went from one home to another – first she was living on her dad’s money and now on her husband’s money. How is she settled? Settled means- having a job which makes you happy first thing – because you are happy with your job you are automatically happy with the money you are earning and end of the day it matters weather staying with your family or anywhere alone is making you happy. Why can’t a boy or girl claiming to be happy and satisfied concludes to the status as settled. All I can say is marriage is just another step of life – but not the final step to be settled – some of us guys and girl are very happily settled in our life by having the job we like – being satisfied with the money we earn and happily staying with our family.